Fri. march 04th 2011 @5:50pm ( cards and letters i wrote/gave to my family)

a card to my mother:  
Dearest mom, I can’t begin to tell you the amount of love, devotion, faith , trust and friendship I have for my mother… you were my mentor into the world of business, style, grace,  and poise..you were laughter, smiles, hugs and home,…you were feelings of safety, security, and unconditional love! 
You were my strength when i was weak, or frightened you were my friend, my mother- my movie and shipping companion- my religious backbone and a fellow cooking “experimenter” you taught me about etiquette,  style, manicures, pedicures, tasteful living and all the  wonder and beauty life could offer- you gave me life enhancing expediences, world travel, connections to amazing  and influential people ….You encouraged me to live the best life possible and  be the best person possible – you were fun talented, and i admired and loved you more than you will ever know!  May your life and birthday bring you as much happiness/love and gifts as you have given to others…may God protect you may your future be prosperous fun joyful easy and filled with laughter love and may you be surrounded with friend family and gave all your dreams and wishes came true- Every wish.. may God grant you the millions you deserve the peace and prosperity you are entitled to and the love unconditional love of all  around you! All my luv mary jean ziska   


Card to my dad: 
This day could come and go  without having the opportunity to thank you and tell you how much I appreciate having you as a father.. But I couldn’t let that happen.. so here goes… 
Growing up with so many advantages, opportunities and blessings was definitely in part due to your wise choices, and our concern for  you family.
You were bigger than life , stronger than Hercules, smarter than anyone i had ever met, and as handsome as a prince, as a little girl you were my strength.. I looked up to you when you were big and I was small.. you were my hero!… 
you taught me to drive a car, conquer math, you instilled in us a sense of honesty, integrity, and the knowledge of how a gentleman treats a lady.  You were witty and funny and seemed to know how to do everything I was constantly amazed.  
The times you were there to help me…
To help me get settled in college when i had an apt for the first time, to get settled in school in France when i went to school there in Cap Dail.. your letters to me when i was in boarding school… the time you spent listening to my dreams, and believing in me.. in talent I never knew I had… in dreams i never knew could come true… all the while providing us with everything.. YOU WERE & ARE THE BEST!
being father’s day you’ve heard it a million times.. but here s one more.. Thank You and Happy Father’ Day…
…Dad, I cant wait for the day you walk me down the isle, hold my children in you arms and watch yet another generation learn from their parents… I can’t wait to go to you for advice and see the pride in your eyes when a grandchild of yours is able to appreciate you as much as i have….. Dad I love you with al my heart, luv your first born daughter, mary Jean ziska   

Card to my sister maura at  her baby shower:
Dearest Maura, the entire experience of pregnancy is just about to end and int this world will come forth a joy , a child to be cherished, loved and well cared for by you and Eric- I couldn’t imagine choosing better parents for your little miracle ! you will make an excellent mom and your little miracle will want  for nothing.. the best parents.. location… schools.. friends.. and best life possible is awaiting her future – May she be as well loved as you are by your friends/family/acquaintances…May she grow in to an amazing woman just like her mother- Maura have a wonderful baby shower and know you are loved and cherished by all those around you  today and always. Luv mary jean ziska  



card to Eric and my sister Maura on the birth of their daughter:
Today,  you  officially became parents to a lovely little girl.  You will form this point forward be known as mom and dad, provider, protector and all knowing loving ..well. basically great parents! 
Maura and Eric.. both of you will be fabulous parents! the  love, knowledge and wisdom you will be able to impart to your daughter will set forth the standard by  which she will grow develop and will be the standard for future generations!  
May your love for each other be reflected in her eyes her entire life-
may your faith, principles, morals and values be reflected in her actions her entire life-
May your faith, principles, morals and values be reflected in her actions her entire life- May your laughter over ride any tears or fears she may face and may you be blessed with a strong and loving family your entire life! congratulations, All My luv Mary Jean Ziska 

a card to my sister Mattie
Dear Mattie
May you have the love you desire for your entire life!  May you find the perfect Mr. right who compliments your positive attributes, who appreciates your talents, and gifts and who cherishes your personality, you kindness, intelligence, love of family, friends and who really loves you and more importantly is worthy of your love!  
Mattie, as you sister, I’ve known you my whole life, I’ve watched you choice in friends in men and in careers- I’ve seen you grow and develop into an amazing woman who deserves only the best!  you cherish your friends, family and you treat life with respect dignity You have been a shoulder to cry on , an ear to listen and the voice of reason, You’ve developed you talents, gifts intelligence and possess the most amazing qualities-
Your attributes , your personality, and life experiences make you one in a million! 
may you find true love worthy of all the greatness you have been you are now an you will become! your life choices will determine you future- Don’t waste a moment on that which doesn’t’ produce happiness and positive memories! 
May you look back on your life with no regrets and know your done you best- lived your fullest life possible and left no one behind.  Its a bit preachy but true… I  dint copy or plagiarize this.. I wrote it from the heart- I just want my sisters/family to have the best and want you to find true happiness peace and most importantly LOVE…. to know you’ve been loved honestly in th
is life time- to know your value your worth and the impact you future and destiny will have on the world.. ( pretty powerful right? ) Most importantly to know your life matters- dearest mattie i love you with all my heart- luv mary jean ziska