For  E-harmony, one question is asked …. who are the most influential person /people in your life… ( besides your parents) …..

I wrote :  My sisters have been the most influential people in my life.  They are both amazing women with varied interests  and strong personalities.    They have influenced my likes, dislikes my views and have been my best friends.    They have always loved me and have been 2 people who i have respected the most.  They would  never steer me wrong, would always want the very best for me and would make my life amazing just as i would do the same for them. 

I am so proud to be the sister of both of them and brag to people about their personalities, their accomplishments and how wonderful they are on paper and in real life. They are beautiful inside and out! I LOVE THEM!  

even in my family  none of my sisters and i are the same…but the unique qualities they have… the unique experiences they have had has given them their unique personality.. and character… and i love them whole heartedly because of exactly who they are… i know them …as my best friends and sisters because of who they are…. not just what people say about them or what i have heard via “hearsay” that they have said… most of everything i hear i don’t believe anymore… but knowing the sweetness.. the intelligence.. the strength.. of their soul….maybe not many people are privy to the level of knowing them … but when you know someone … someone who would do anything for you… is your friend when your are crying g over a boy.. the loss of a job… or sharing the joy over…. a holiday… over a book… or movie… or just a shared memory…. someone who took the time out of there life to let you know that it  doesn’t matter  that you are a sister.. and someone they didn’t choose as a friend. that they would choose you as their friend…. and have chosen you as their friend… my mo and her sisters have this song… that is really old and it goes something like this….

Sisters… sisters… there was never such devoted sisters… when someone tried to split them up but no one could…
Lord help the mister who comes between me and my sisters… and Lord help the sister who comes between me and my man….     



*as a side note..  I didn’t get a chance to see my sisters this past thanksgiving…. and to think of it i haven’t spoken to them in a while… but there is this one saying i have on my wall of quotes…. o.k. maybe more than one saying … or quote…..

“No lapse of time or distance of place can lesson the friendship of those who are truly persuaded of each others worth…. “

“A Good friend is hard to find /hard to lose/and impossible to forget ”