Its labor day and a new entry for September! I have been signed up for e-harmony for a while now and have not really had much response. well, that is not exactly true… there were supposedly 900 something matches… yes that typo is not a typo.. I said.. nine hundred….and change…so… as for all these perfect matches… still no dates…. actually not even any responses….I first started to do these introductions with what they call an icebreaker… no response… I was told … ( should I really listen to all the helpful advice?HA!) anyway I was told that was too impersonal.. so now I send everyone a sample of questions and then see who responds… yesterday there seemed to be a few actual prospects… of course I am not sure if they will live up to the entries that they have posted on
EHARMONY I’ll have to wait and see…
back to some of the qualities… for the mythical perfect guy….. so intelligence… has to have gone to college and be intelligent… yes I know, I know… bill gates quit Harvard… but that is not the point.. the point is that he went to Harvard..that he was accepted to Harvard.. that he a billionaire who is not only doing great and wonderful things for philanthropy… but that he also created an amazing company and products… so yes there are exceptions… but intelligence, creativity, articulate…. definitely a must…
Another important quality… communication, and romance…. I am a die hard romantic… or at least I used to be… I would put my whole heart and soul into romance…. love to plan and execute romantic get a ways… or trips… or even dinners or day’s activities…. I must admit I am a bit of a planner… and love having everything work out according to plan…. of course sometimes things don’t exactly work out.. but having a great sense of humor would be great for him to have at such moments….
ideally I am physically attracted to tallish, blond haired, blue eyed, slim athletic build…. type Those are the guys that can turn my head… amazingly enough I have rarely been able to date guys that fit that physical description…. but I am still looking HA!
Just wondering what most families and their friends are doing this holiday?….. for me I bet it would have been a great day to be out at the beach…at least i’m sure if the beach today was as nice as it was yesterday… i bet it was nice… I went out to my aunts condo which is right next to where we used to live… on the beach… or if I had one at a beach front condo…. one with a boat dock… go and have a nice lunch out on the water…or at a local yacht club… maybe time with friends or family and a jet ski.. or water skiing… here in florida it was a great day for most of the day… lots of people out on the golf course…( of another thing I would love to learn to do.. play golf)…and get much better at tennis… also take a real cooking course in france or italy… no in france…. also would love to take so many classes… and travel… gosh… travel all over the world again….
But since I am alone… i just did chores… so no boating.. no picnic lunch.. no friends over for a nice lunch… or even a game of golf…maybe if this contest ever would work this will have to be the last lonely holiday I will ever have to spend…. HA! luv mary jean ziska