Dear everyone, family and friends…  hope all is well….  getting excited for my 2nd home made attempt
at thanksgiving… and my cooking of all of it…. last year turned out delicious…  or so i was told..hopefully everyone was
honest…. ha… I plan on the same dinner menu…. turkey… and stuffing,
cranberries, and green beans and peas… and corn souffle  and spinach souffle, mashed potatoes.. and
apple pie and pumpkin pie….  maybe
an  hor’ dovier   … and mom said she will bring the
salad…  but the best will be the
company…. my Mom and Mattie will be here … and Maura, Eric, Caroline and
Ella   and Dad you are invited as well…..
and Scott if you were in  town of course
you and Olivia….  are invited as
well…    so i was thinking  that 1pm would be a great time to start
dinner…. well actually lunch then 2nd time eating may be dinner…HA… and
we can visit and watch a movie … or if you bring swim suits  or walking shoes you are welcome to go for a
swim or a walk….    please email back
your plans.. and  who can and can’t
come….  so i can know how much to
prepare…  i missed watching Joel Osteen
this last week.. I did watch a couple great catholic masses….(Joel)  he had a great email sent today… .  i wanted to share… no pressure  hint on the answer  for 
the thanksgiving invitation… but hopefully you will enjoy the   email…. luv Mary jean Ziska…. I love and
miss my family every minute of every day…. 
and today and every day i am thankful and grateful for having you in my
life…..

so remember time approx. 
1pm…. location:  5632
Whisperwood blvd. 1601 Naples Florida 34110  
( remember in the strand at cypress cove complex.. Maura and dad.. if
you want i can write out more specific directions…  if you decide to come…  just let me know…

hey remember that song….” thanksgiving day is coming
.. and Mr turkey said… ” How very careful i must be or i will lose my
head… said the pumpkin to the turkey.. I’m frightened me oh my.. they’ll mix
me up with sugar and spice and I’ll be pumpkin pie!”.. HA!  . that is all i can remember with a bit of
prompting from mom ha…. anyway great memories…  of great holidays with great family
members…                               
luv mary jean ziska  /

Say “Yes” to His Yes!  
TODAY’S SCRIPTURE:  “For all the
promises of God in Him are Yes, and in Him Amen, to the glory of God through
us.”  (2 Corinthians 1:20, NKJV)    TODAY’S WORD from Joel and Victoria

When God laid out the plan for your life, He lined up the
right people, the right breaks and the right open doors. In other words, He
already had your “yeses” planned out — Yes, you can accomplish your dreams.
Yes, you can overcome that obstacle. Yes, your children can fulfill their
destiny. Yes you can succeed. YES is in your future!  The question is, are you going to say “yes”
to God’s “yes”? Are you going to dare to believe Him — to get into agreement
with His promises?    Start right now by
declaring His promises over your life. Start declaring that He is good and that
His plan will come to pass. Don’t let doubt and discouragement distract you
keep your eyes fixed on Him because He is faithful. His promises are always yes
and amen. So say “yes” to His “yes”!    A
PRAYER FOR TODAY    Father, today I say
“yes” to You. I say “yes” to Your promises and “yes” to Your ways. Help me to
live a life pleasing to You and bring You glory in all that I say and do, in
Jesus’ name. Amen.    — Joel &
Victoria Osteen                                             Tender
Loving Care Service     Marion
Gregory   Director  239-598-1515 naplesmarion@aol.com  Mary Jean Ziska   Assistant Director  239-234-4065 
whatabtmary@yahoo.com

Say “Yes” to His Yes!

TODAY’S SCRIPTURE

“For all the promises of God in Him are Yes, and in Him
Amen, to the glory of God through us.”

(2 Corinthians 1:20, NKJV)

TODAY’S WORD from Joel and Victoria

When God laid out the plan for your life, He lined up the
right people, the right breaks and the right open doors. In other words, He
already had your “yeses” planned out — Yes, you can accomplish your dreams.
Yes, you can overcome that obstacle. Yes, your children can fulfill their
destiny. Yes you can succeed. YES is in your future!

The question is, are you going to say “yes” to God’s “yes”?
Are you going to dare to believe Him — to get into agreement with His promises?

Start right now by declaring His promises over your life.
Start declaring that He is good and that His plan will come to pass. Don’t let
doubt and discouragement distract you keep your eyes fixed on Him because He is
faithful. His promises are always yes and amen. So say “yes” to His “yes”!

A PRAYER FOR TODAY

Father, today I say “yes” to You. I say “yes” to Your
promises and “yes” to Your ways. Help me to live a life pleasing to You and
bring You glory in all that I say and do, in Jesus’ name. Amen.

— Joel & Victoria Osteen

hey did i happen to mention that i just now figured out that th same scum that had ruined my life actually must have started in 1999…. the idenity theft for the redit cards for capital one stated in 2002… but ther is anothe mortgage on my home by my dad… th origional one  listed in his name only for when we boguth this conodo..when he bought theth is for me… in 1999…. adn  it wwas for only 132,000.00…. i was lied to that it cost my dad 169,000.00….. so someoen might have scammed my dad adn bougth it from hiem.. and made a 32,000.00 profit… on mmy lis tof mortages the ones that included an entire fake or false line… of mortages someone  kept buying and  selling…   sother ethey made hundreds of thousands of dollars.. but for me alsone they made a profit of  82,000.00 before my name was on the mortage… and another lie… tha ti owed money to the IRS…. which i didnt … and which was the reason i didnt put my name on my mortage in 1999….. criminals all criminals… lall liars and all scum since 1999….. not one honet rpersonin teh bunch,,,, so this is why i wrote my will…. 

toby mac:”made to love you”/ james
taylor”you’ve got a friend” & thought i’d see you
again”/eric clapton wonderful tonight’/news boys”shine”/song
from  stigmata “what ever happend to
mary”/dido”life for rent”/.

special initentions: want Karen Kahel and her group along with  Gerard Ahler and his group to be sued  for their part in ruining TEN or MORE  years of my life. I want a private
investigator to find each and every conartist/criminal/idemnity theif
responsible for lying/cheating/stealing/hacking/manipulatiing/starting from
when my dad/mom helped me buy my condo(strand).I was lied to about the cost of
the condo/lied to/manipulated/stolen from/harmed every  minute of every day since…  I want the state of Florida to be sued for
their misconduct and negligence in never listening to me about the abuse,  the harassment,the stealing, bulling and
their disinterest in assisting me to bring justice for all of it!  I want the state of Florida including patrick
weber and everyone involved since 2006-2012 to be included in the law suit and
in the changes that need to be made in their policies/procedures for
guardianship criteria and guardianship assistance and monitoring!  I want sanctions/disbarment   for them to be held responsible for the  misconduct/ negligence and their part ruining
years of my life ( from 2006-2012) 
instead of helping/assisting my life! I want the police/sheriff’s  department sued for not stopping the people
responsible for continually stealing from me or harming me. for not writing up
official reports or doing any thorough investigations into the identity
thieves, the  thieves  who stole my personal physical property.. and
the thieves who stole  my intercultural
property from my website, my external hard drives or internal hard drives.. who
stole files and businesses and who were allowed to bully harass and
manipulate/spoofed numbers never investigated… hacked voice mail and accounts
never stopped… businesses stolen/ lives/families  ruined and no police ever stopped anyone!
Caught anyone! but instead in some incidences… they actually protected the
villain/ the identity thief and belittled the damage and harm done to
me…  no one was ever prosecuted or  put in jail

condo dostribution: my condo in the strand golfing community located at 5632
Whisperwood Blvd. 1601  Naples, Florida
34110 to my  blood related DNA verified
family my condo in Naples Florida.  I
want to make sure that my  mother and my
sister Mattie have a residence they can call their home and no one can take
away from them. If both of them have  a
residence  that is safe from foreclosure
and they  want to stay  in their own home /and if an agreement can be
made by all 4 remaining members of my family to sell the condo and split the
proceeds equally. If one or any of the 
members needs a residence, then a payment should be made to the
remaining members  who will not be
residing in the the residence to eventually equal the  value of 
a sale. this seems very fair.. i want the payment to the other members
remaining to be only what they can afford so as not to be a burden as i want
the condo for once in its existence since i started owning it  in 1999… to be place full of love and hope
where  dreams can come true and
opportunities can succeed… instead of being the place where I  have lived the worst experiences of my entire
life.. and where i have had to experience due 
to criminal intent..the worst crime and loneliest years of my life…crime,
abuse manipulation which caused so such emotion devastation i would not want
them to go thorough any of those experiences in my condo which was supposed
to  be full of promise and joy and it was
not due to the  horrid people who lied,
manipulated, and cheated me out for the life I envisioned, in the life ,i
planned, and in the life i wanted!… No one 
stopped them…ever…. and they ruined my life forever! i don’t want my
family to be hurt by the same scum that hurt me….  I want their lives to be happy and this condo
to be an asset to their lives… to be helpful and to be a  wonderful experience for living here. i loved
you all and missed you evey minute of every day!.

.

So labor day…. day of rest right?  i am watching  Julie  and  Julia or is it Julia and Julie… i can’t remember…. anyway it is about passions… about blogging…. and even about the supportative people who  want the people they love to be happy…. you know those elusive supportive and  unselfish people who are genuine friends and who want there genuine friends to be happy… really happy….from personal experience i can barely remember what it was like to have  really great friends in my life… the ones  who love talking to you on the phone, to enjoy hearing about your  dreams.. who light up when you  help them to find their dreams.. and to find their passions.. and to  believe in therm selves… and  know their future is limitless…. especially when you have those great friends  who support what you want to do and who you want to become ,, who love you just as you are but who cant wait to  be around when you grow older and wiser and  who just plain like you..,
i can say i barely remember what it was like…. because I think  my life has become as limited as having just one friend … an old roommate scott renshaw,.. at least i think he is still a friend….  
and no one on  the phone or on skype.. or in emails,,, has been supportive or  encouraging unless they get something  out of my choices in life.. and that has been for years, i think…. they want me out of the way… want to discredit any of my memories and  anything i say or do…..  they have not helped me to find the truth of whothe hell stoelk my identity or my credit… or my clothes… or my jewelry…. or who the hell are all the fake freaks on the  phone…    i get tossed around talking  to  whoever answers the  phone… and they are never my friends ….they have a limited memory of my life…. pretty much the last horrid experience  they put me through…. is the topic of discussion…. i get no phone  calls ..hey i was just thinking of you and  missed you,,,, or  i remembered this funny thing you did or we did together…or do you remember that time…. nope…. none of that…  no encouraging ideas of a business… unless they wanted to steal the business… so  like the pro-line Brooklyn  crook &contracting asshole,…. and  whoever stole the  M&M decorative painting …. that little girl will not have been the same girl who will know anything about being  in tree tops or on mount Everest.. or shopping with my mom  in Paris…. or boarding school, or working for  the etiquette school, or the babysitting business….or taking care of the elderly or even creating  websites,,, or even blogging… or getting  a Westlaw account to stop injustice….But  i did all of that…..  you have the girl who stole my life so she could become a teacher….. or some  girl who steals my birthday presents… or  my phone calls…. or my life….. and  they are not supportive about finding out who the criminals are…. OF course not… they are the criminals !

I MISS MY FAMILY , MY FRIENDS EVERY MINUTE OF EVERY DAY…… 

yep… maybe there are no great people left on this planet… wait … ann romney … her speech  was amazing…. and  i got to speak with my old roommate scott renshaw … who was nice…    but other than that…. where are the great  people who are noble, honorable, honest, descent, trustworthy… who have scruples, and morals, who   are inspirational, and normal….  i miss those type of people in my life…. every minute of every day….  i miss my friends, my family,  and  great people  in my life …..every minute of ever day…. 

Blog post: mythical “William”

A few days ago by chance, I met a woman prohibited. Began chitchatting. It always amazes me that you never really understand who person is where they come from without conversation. This woman when I mentioned I grew up in Saudi Arabia. My father worked for a company in Saudi Arabia and my father’s company was Aramco also receives Aramco world! I was thrilled to find that her 2nd-husband was the recipient of the Aramco world magazines. When I had a moment I was able to view slides of adventures and explorations. She had on one of her travel excursions. We discussed how people and generations have changed. We talked at length about the differences and generations and how these differences have made a culture and generation that is lost to me a little bit of the gentlemanly manners that my father and his generation actually always upheld. We talked it length about how men will wear their baseball caps even at church should of course. But that was completely unacceptable. Even though I hadn’t thought of it. She was right. The sign of disrespect, and the manner in which casual attire and casual manners has invaded our culture seems to really have created a culture devoid of the gentleman ideal. We also talked about how generations changed from being outside, exploring, how travel excursions cruises etc. bus tours are all set up for a very superficial of any locale. She described how she loved being able to explore areas meet people learn of culture and customs out of the way but authentic restaurants, shops and antiquities. I also said I messed when I was at one France being able to not be considered at worst purple and then be able to shop or review sites in a manner that allowed you to truly see the real area. Not talking of back streets or garbage or dangerous areas. I’m talking about not just the superficial commercialized souks were set up stalls with elevated prices and generic products.

At the end of june I was able to join life loyal…for kappa alpha theta… after a year of payments i will have my fees for corporate paid for life….. so iwill be a sister of kappa alpha theta… for life…paid in full…. what a great feeling…
I look through the theta magazine…. and see all the amazing women who have really made such greataccompllishments in ther lifetime ..

I wonder if I will ever get the opportunity to actually have the life i planned unstead of having to fix allthe horrid experiences these horrid criminals caused….

My sisters adn i all pledged teh same kappa alpha theta… when i look at so many of the alumni I am so proud to be in such great company….and to be an alumni….

women like Laua bush and her daughters….
signory weaver….
and each month… more and more woman who make a positive impact on this world…

there are groups within groups to join… adn you find out htese women are everywhere!

I hope and pray i am able to meet so many more of these women.. who are role models… who are inspirational, who are just great women… the kind of women you can or want to be best friends with …
I see such a marked difference in people i have met… who’s morals and values.. who’s upbringing..and belief system are not like those yousee in sororities… and it makes a difference…
i dont mean to be a snob.. but it makes a difference… when youare brought up not to bully… or not to lie or cheat or steal… when you have strong women in your life who show youthat anything is possible.. and who are encouraging and supportive of hopes and dreams… who wouldn’t break the law… but become the lawyers( like my sister) who uphold the laws… or the judges.. or the congressmen..(or woman I mean..)
and when they work together to make a change.. or for a cause… that is power…

and just knowing that these women are my sisters… maybe not all by blood… ( but two of my real life sistrs are also kappa alpha theta sisters… HA!) knowing they are there to help.. to encourage.. to uplift… to inspire…. or even to shop with… to laugh with … and even to cry with….
when as you get older, and somedays when it seems really lonly knowing somewher outthere … are girls and women.. whoshare the same values.. and who are your soriority sisters…. it makes teh world seem more connected somehow… and I’m really glad that I joined life loyal…for kappa alpha theta… even the name of it.. loyal for life… is what life loyal means in a way…. and what better way to describe the peole you want in your corner.. in your life… but by being there for your entire life!…. luv mary jean ziska


it just makes a huge difference…

 At the end of june Iwas able to join life loyal…for kappa alpha theta… after a year of payments i will have my fees for corporate  paid for life….. so iwill be a sister of kappa alpha theta… for life…paid in full…. what a great feeling…
I look through the theta magazine…. and see all the amazing women  who have really made such greataccompllishments in  ther lifetime ..

I wonder if I will ever get the  opportunity to actually have the life i planned unstead of having to fix allthe horrid experiences these horrid   criminals  caused….

My sisters adn i all pledged teh same kappa alpha theta…  when i look at so many of the alumni I am so proud to be in such great company….and to be an alumni….

women like Laua  bush and her daughters….
signory weaver…. ,

and each month… more and more woman who make a positive impact on this world…

there are groups  within groups  to join… adn you find out htese  

So when I said I wanted a nice waspy clean cut conservative
guy…… one with a mom who was a member of jr league… one  who I could accompany on shopping adventures at
waterside shops… one who I could laugh with who was a starch republican,
who  was honest, and trustworthy, who
actually was intelligent and believed in furthering education…  actually supportative of me attaining an mba…
or having a successful business… or even who appreciated me as a great mother
and wife…..  I came up with a list of all
kinds of attributes that I have always admired in  this “mythical guy”…. You know not just
handsome… which in my case meant blond hair, blue eyes.. tall, thin, intelligent
athletic and friendly and loyal and faithful someone  who could be your  best friend…. Who you could share your hopes
and dreams with… who  made your life
better by just being a part of it…. Who enjoyed my company as much as I enjoyed
his… who believed in dreams coming true… in life being everything you ever
wanted in it… and who was amazing…..     
one who was a true partner, who actually liked me.. wanted to spend time
with me… a real.. person.. without a multiple of issues and problems…

Were is anyone like that??????? Anyone….  One normal 
person… or family…..  one guy who
is Caucasian  tall, thin. Blond…. Or blond
at one time… And blue eyed… who can carry on a normal conversation.. even be
witty…  is that really too much to ask
for?  A person with ambition…. Like the
vineyard vine guys….who created a business….. how about the visionaries… dreamers
with practical experience and practical  experience
applications… and someone with ambition…. Drive… and goals and  a bucket list….

And passion…. With life.. and their family … and the ability
to be great to their family..  and be a
great dad….

The list is never ending.. and I honestly don’t think there
is anyone  who will ever allow me to meet
such a guy…   if he even exists…. I
don’t  think  the ” freaks”   in charge.. the ones  who think they are” god”… will ever allow me
to be the best possible me..  and have
the life I was supposed to have…  will ever
 stop harmng my life.. they ruined my
credit… stole my identity…. Put me though the worst experiences of my life… and
they never stop..  since 2002…. I have  just horrid experiences to go though… one
horrible experience after  another that ruins
yet another part of my life…  they took a
very  happy nice innocent well adjusted
girl…opps… woman… who had hopes and dreams.. who had ambitions and desires
for  specific goals to be met..  who imagined a great life and future because I
had had a great life once   wonderful family
 once and wonderful friends once…  And then they systematically ruined
everything…. And destroyed what should have been ten great years of my life
where I should have been able  to  date 
get married.. have children, have a career… go on to further my
education if I so desired…. Take  classes
of interest.. throw dinner parties… go on vacations and laugh and make great
memories….    Joined not only my soriority alumni
association but also be a member of jr league.. and make a postivie difference
in  the lives I was able to touch…   

Somedays talking to people on the phone… it’s like talking
to total strangers…  I end up in tears…  feeling like I had just wasted time energy
and  my own thoughts and feelings..
on  who? And why?  I am left with  this empty 
pit  where my heart used to be…  and feeling more alone… wondering who the
hell I was sharing my thoughts or feelings with…and how they were going  to use that information to harm my life…  I  used
to think how glorious it was to share my thought s and feelings to these people
on the phone.. who were suppsed to love me to care about me to be my genuine friends
and family…. How great to build these bonds of knowledge of trust and of all
the  little stories you gather over your
shard lifetime…     but if you are not sharing  the stories.. the comments on  books or televisions shows..  not sharing  your utmost dreams with someone who actually
does care…   what a waste ….. when there
are genuine friends… I cannot seem to contact… that I cannot seem to reach or
speak to…   who would honestly care… Help… find me… please….
I am lonely… and I miss my family and I miss my friends… i miss them every minute of every day…..  I miss the life I had and
the life I was supposed to have ….  And I
honestly hate the imposter criminal  scum
who stole it all from me…  I will never
forgive or forget… EVER……your part in all of this…