Monday October 18th 2010 rotton day!!!!!!

 Well, today started out as a great day…. beautiful weather… a James bond show to walk on the treadmill… … absolutely perfect until i read a bully email sent to me yesterday at 10:fifty something….   then a few more bully emails… then horrible phone conversations… and wham…. a horrible day… me in tears.. with my stomach all in knots… feeling just as horrible as when karne kahel would bully me or show up trespassing in my complex… and the thing of it is.. who ever keeps doing all of this does it on purpose.. they know exactly when and how to harm or bully or inflict pain on someone.. on me… could someone be that petty that they are
so jealous of me having a great family… or of being happy… or of
having great business ideas… or plans… they have to be so childish.. to steal a business….

I didn’t want to bring this  entire story into this blog.. especially since it is all about God being in control..in him being able to make great and wonderful experiences happen…   in him being able to find this perfect guy for me… the perfect guy for me with out all the drama… and with hardly any issues or problems since i really don’t want  to deal with any…

 

Get this…  some horrible human being tried firing me from my own business….  yesterday…  yep, sent me a bully email using my mother’s email address… when I called the police they said that an unlocked router can actually be accessed to send emails… so voila… her renters… now or from before… or her baby sitters… now or from before… who don’t want to share the jobs… or want things to change…  or even some disgruntled employees. from possibly from even a hotel… or even that girl from Ohio state who enjoys bulling other girls… 

using my mother’s email address… trying to cause conflict and damage between a family and a business.. some evil and vile people not taking responsibility for their own poor behavior and their horrid and pathetic excuse of human existence  but trying to blame it on  someone as innocent and wonderful as my mother…. my mother and my family absolutely love me… they would never in a million years ever harm me or torment me like these girls have done… i will say it now for the record.. these people  so guilty of inflicting emotional distress.. of harming a business and of trying to damage relationships…  i know i can never forgive them….

The show Mean Girls…   these girls are sooo much worse than that… they are criminal in their pursuit of harming others… their diabolical and methodical way of harming another human being .. of breaking them down to tears.. after anger.. with no remorse… the intentional  infliction of emotional distress…  like having a cell phone with a caller id that is backward from my mother… Gregory Marion… instead of Marion Gregory… the Gregory Marion caller id… horrid… … a rotten person on that phone line  not only a liar… but but the actual method of torture….this girl or boy will get me upset then tape phone messages so they can play them to people or back to myself…Seriously,  who hasn’t been upset after being bullied for hours.. for having mean and damaging and emails sent …. who wouldn’t be affected…
If anyone has any idea how to stop them please let me know…. I’ve contacted the police, an attorney… sent emails, phone calls… anything trying to let people know the damage these people have done… and are continuing to do… i wold love some assistance in stopping them… i even contacted a person who was a former FBI and worked as a private investigator…  

It’s horrible to meet and have to deal with human beings who really should be locked up and in jail… who lie and cheat and steal…  who pretend to be something they are not… not just identity theft… but something far more sinister…. something i never want to be a part of… sick people who play games with people’s lives… with out any remorse…

This guy who started all of this in 2003…Gerard Alher…. really horrible human being…( if you can call him human) .  I sure wouldn’t … ever call him anything close to human….

you know when you first start asking someone about themselves… trying to sauce out if they would be someone with similar values.. or morals.. or even likes or interests…  he actually had the nerve when i asked him if he did something he was proud of in his life… to say ….. yes……. I thought maybe he would say something like helping some children from St. Judes hospital … or giving money to a great charity… but no …..you won’t believe what his answer was…

He said when he and his “friends” were chasing some girl…  she wrecked her car and became a paraplegic… and even though he never slept with her he paid her bills… can you believe that??????? … the guy didn’t even blink or show any sign of remorse… or feelings for actually ruining another human beings life…. not one moment of caring or compassion about how this girl will never be able to live out her hopes and dreams… of how she will never be able to walk or maybe ever be able to even feed herself… or live any normal life… not like she had before meeting his destructive person…
one action that can’t be undone..  they had a choice …..to harm her or not… to harm her..  but instead of having morals or ethics or values… those selfish individuals.. decided to go ahead..  have some fun… use a person for their own benefit… who cares right?  who would notice right?…. and so made choices that  were responsible for the destruction of a girls life.. of a family… and not a single sign of remorse… he didn’t even mention he was sorry….that it affected his life and changed him into being a better human .. no… he was actually  proud of having paid the bills… remember the question… right?  this was was he was most proud of in his life…. of having accomplished..  his answer to being  good to another human being to making a positive difference in someone’s life…  of course after chasing  this girl causing an accident a girl and ruining her life…

( hummmm wonder if they bullied her before that  “on purpose accident” ….)  anyway taking about begin scared and frightened and horrified on a “date”… no lets not call it a date… please …. meeting him and his con artist group was actually the worst thing ever to happen to me in my life…

 I actually think that night he offered me one thousand dollars to give up the rights to my gingerbread man story… HA! no way.. my gingerbread man story will have a wonderful story book ending….    An absolutely wonderful guy… with amazing family and friends.. who will get to meet my amazing family and friends… hopefully I wont be a quadriplegic or dead or something by then…

 Did I mention he did mention his partner was killed and he had to be interrogated all day one day… … but them that was in  Brooklyn new york.. and he claimed his family was somehow connected to the Mafia… probably all lies.. but defiantly one person i wish i had never in my life ever met ever……  him and karen kahel… Ugg… two people i wish i had never met in my life…

Can you imagine these horrible  women who manipulate and  conscientiously  and calculatingly go about and intentionally harming people…. they must not have any idea idea of the consequence of their actions…right?

Can people really be that evil?

I  mean I hope that they have no idea of how much damage they cause…  and the thing that gets me to the core of my  being… is why…. why ??? for a business??? there was this family from the check republic who used to hire nannies from the Chek republic each year they would get a new nanny… each year one of the nanny’s would find a guy and get married.. don’t know if that was each and everyone of them but most of them… one of the nannies told me there was this guy who wanted to start a business like my mom’s still cant find out who it was…….

If anyone has any leads on who may be wanting to either steal or ruin my mom and my business.. please let me know….

 I know this one guy who i got a referral from the chek nannies…  named Johnathan… was supposed to do computer work for the family’s  company… he came over and was going help me with my computer.. wasn’t able to fix anything but was able to use this metal case attach it to my hard drive.. and i think got all my original files from my our business… ( my mom and mine)  business… scary right?… you let someone into your life expecting them to be these good and great help and they can borrow copies of your files…. which in turn can copy a business… which can  no only damage your  business… but it feels like a betrayal like insider trading… stealing  to copy a business…. or worse yet…
like that one horrible date… someone like that could damage your entire life….

The thing that is so funny.. is that  since my mom is an entrepreneur… and i had the extreme pleasure of seeing her create the amazing MET business…. I’ve been working  on business since I was 10-12 years old… while  growing up in Saudi Arabia.. we were creative in so many ways… we would bring in items like bubble yumm… ( remember that stuff?)  and sometimes give it away or sell it… or the  new and  music..  or crafts…. really when you have a mind for business when you see an opportunity its so much fun to try to fill the niche…

One attempt at a business with a friend started in her kitchen…   peanut brittle… we laughed so hard when we were making it … and we were so enthusiastic… made a sample plate to take to the teacher’s lounge… slight problem… we let everyone get so full of the samples… HA! but we took a concept… made the product and even marketed it…. not so bad at age 11 I think… I mean Warren Buffett bought his first stock at 14 right?

But what I was trying to get at.. why steal a business? Can some people who have no creativity.. no imagination.. no business sense and no morals to boot… actually have to go around and steal or ruin a business  are there so many people who can’t take a concept and through honest means create a business plan… take  the right steps to  market a product….and with the right connections  and financing… create a thriving business????…

What type of person would have to  be so stupid that they couldn’t think of something original… but would have to steal a business already in operation… not only shows such lack of moral character but had to be of such a low intelligence… right?    

So, as of tonight…. and the lies about me being fired from  my own business…  UNTRUE  and such a lie… whoever today was bulling and damaging my life…   the new profession i am supposed to change and do in my life is be a nurse….and not an assistant director of a babysitting business or of the etiquette school…. and whomever  will basically bully  me into being a nurse whether I want it or not… and in doing so will then go right ahead and steal the business i worked to help my mother maintain….  I actually had worked these past two  years without a pay check..  was even working toward helping it to become the million $ business… who knows… working within the hotel industry.. wouldn’t it be great to have made it into a franchise…

When I look back…  wonder if  that one ucky  guy Gerard started doing this sort of thing  when i had my faux painting business…  he did have Proline Contracting…..at the time…  UCK!!!!! It makes me shudder just to think of it…. if any one has any proof let me know!!!

My last bit of horror story for this evening… NEVER ALLOW bad people into your lives!!!!

SO ….  A NICE QUOTE TO END THIS MANIPULATED AND HORRIBLE EVENING….  I actually had this on my screen saver in 1999….

“IF ONE ADVANCES CONFIDENTLY IN THE DIRECTION OF HIS DREAMS AND ENDEAVORS TO LIVE THE LIFE WHICH HE HAS IMAGINED HE WILL MEET WITH A  SUCCESS UNEXPECTED IN COMMON HOURS” HENRY DAVID THOREAU