6:15pm on Wednesday September 29th 2010
One quick entry… just  a thought or two… about honesty and integrity… both in men and women… 

 I pose a quick question.. would you ever lie or harm someone’s life to benefit your own?… your children’s? or  to gain something for yourself?

I have actually come face to face with evil  people who would sell out  anyone’s life  to better their own… or in the worst case scenario.. would actually harm anyone’s life to better their own..

I don’t understand how they think or really how they operate.. they must have a moment where they have a choice of either helping or harming a person.. or a person’s life.. and somehow they choose to take the wrong path… how do they sleep at night?… I don’t understand ….  when confronted with a choice to do good or evil these people choose evil… is it that they have never been caught?… or faced the consequences.of their actions?.. could they  possibly not have one shred of decency… no ethics or morals to speak of… no remorse.. or just  no conscience?…  these women or men must be void of every bit of human compassion.. or existence… I mean can you call a person who has no ethics no morals or values.. who  indiscriminately goes around and harms people… can you really call them human if they have no soul?  If anyone has any reason why someone would choose to harm a person… please let me know…I don’t get it… at all…   

Before meeting the only evil I have ever met in my life… I was so innocent, so sweet, and I guess that left me a bit gullible… and naive… but i was always surrounded by the most amazing friends and family and through their love and guidance…. i really had no harm in my life… i must take this opportunity to thank them for all the love and guidance they provided me my entire life… it was actually like walking around with a ton of guardian angels… who rally wanted me to be happy and to know the more positive and loving  side of life… it was great! 

Back to the women who lie to get what they want … can you believe that there are some women out there who will put on a complete false front… ie.. fake… and lie about their likes and dislikes just to get a guy… and even go to the extreme of actually harming any girls they might consider “competition” just to harm their reputation.. and  thus make themselves look better… how horrid.. Right? 

I actually babysat  for a little girl who actually stole money from her sister.. then lied to me about it until she thought she was going to be caught by the use of a video camera..  she did not tell the truth… and lied like a professional criminal… and the girl was like 7 years old….  I was shocked…. to say the least… so here is another question.. are these horrid girls created?.. or born?… is evil a part of a personality… or developed when these girls are not punished for the wrong they cause or the harm they cause?…. Take for example a bully …..on the phone…  or face to face… If face to face would they be as hurtful or damaging… if they knew the harm they caused?… would they jump up and down … in joy… or would they actually feel some type of sympathy… or compassion…  in the case of two people I’ve referred to in this blog entry ad others… these people who i met face to face….I now believe them to be pure evil… they got sheer pleasure out of harming or stealing or damaging people’s lives… 

…… for me.. I WOULD NOT harm someone else to get something for myself…  I actually believe that people who manipulate others for their own gain…  are on the bottom of the food chain… very bottom…  but then I don’t lie or cheat or steal.. I also don’t believe in doing  drugs or ever  indulging in  alcohol….

So….back to the  Gingerbread man qualities.. I would not want someone who would lie or cheat or steal… or who has ever been to jail….

or would not want  someone who had or has ever had a drug problem or alcohol problem…  i am  not interested in anyone with any mental deficiencies…  or many issues or problems…

If that doesn’t  sound  politically correct i am sorry but i know what i want.. and what i don’t want to deal with… in a relationship in a marriage or in my life. …   i do believe in  helping  people…  in fact i think “the giving list”  by Warren Buffet and Bill Gates is amazing… though  most of the giving is for health care and education… if i can remember correctly… and not many provisions for giving monies to businesses..  which when you think of it Warren Buffet and Bill  Gates both gave that speech at Columbia Business School…. ( if you haven’t seen the interview.. check it out… i think it was on CNBC or MSNBC) if i remember correctly… Erin was the interviewer…

Also… think about the Member’s Project…by American express.. or even the Pepsi Project... both amazing  contests… and support such wonderful and great causes/ ideas…. and   organizations..

I  always thought by helping people with creating a business…  these same people following their passions… and creating commerce… in some way or other… that it will instill more avenues for creating passion in others.. business ideas.. and more revenue for our economy… to me allowing people to follow their passion int a career path… just is exciting… maybe because i was able to have the opportunity to take a hobby ( art) and with a lot of patience.. of direction and faith from my family and friends… I was able to take a hobby and turn it into a business … a business mind you that no one thought I was capable to doing… at least that is how they thought of my ideas… “my plan”.. and my business… but as I mentioned before in a previous blog… I actually won the favor of not only my clients and some really neat and wonderful designers.. but i was able to have wonderful sisters and friends and family who became my biggest fans…   so much for my faux painting business… M&M DECORATIVE  PAINTING…  guess that is why i am so encouraging for others to pursue their dreams… not only can they achieve  their dreams.. they can know the sheer pleasure of fulfilling their destiny… and hopefully go on to help others follow their dreams… wouldn’t that make such a nice almost “pay it forward” type situation?….  what have you done for someone else today?… have you harmed anyone? or helped anyone?…  how about this question… if you died today… and at the gates of heaven.. what would be the comment from t.  Peter?…..from ….God?…